The Smart Way to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

There’s more than one way to skin a cat. Now, that is not to suggest that you consider your ex boyfriend a cat that you want to skin. Obviously you don’t, otherwise you wouldn’t be referring to articles on getting your ex back.

So then, that’s settled - you actually want your cat back to pet, not to skin; now read on.

Have you got the feeling everything you have been trying out has actually been making things worse? Did it seem like the harder you tried, the further away he seems to slip from you?

Let’s get one thing straight right away: sending your ex gifts, and calling and texting him a zillion times a day, and otherwise dropping heavy hints all over the countryside is almost surely not going to work. They are all going to bounce off him like insults off a politician. You have probably experienced this already.

What you need is something that will work – something that will make sure your ex will be doing all the gifting, calling and texting.

So – no more sighing, no more pining, no more flower petals and “Will he… Won’t he?” sessions.

You may be surprised to know this, but you may be feeding his vanity by chasing him. Even the mildest of people can get downright ornery sometimes, and push right back if they sense they are being pressured.

Cease. Take a long breath, and tell yourself:
“I am going to do better than that, I am going to get my ex back.”

Go in for a smart make-up-the-break-up solution. Use the little vanities of human nature – don’t fight them. Understand what makes your ex tick, and draw him back to you. You will revive your relationship and stabilize it.

“What, then, is a better, surer way to get my ex boyfriend back?”

Let’s consider one of the options available: take a calculatedly different tack. Play hard to get.

Playing hard to get is a great tactic that when used right, can achieve just the results you want. Move on with the other parts of your life; put your ex on the back burner for a while. It will probably be very hard to do, but stay away. Make no effort to contact your ex.

Let him get intrigued – let him make the next move.

You have to play on the probability that your ex is also in the situation you are in – missing you, wanting you back. When you make him unsure about what your feelings and intentions are, he is going to get downright eager to find out.

You must keep in mind that the key lies in utilizing human nature constructively. In keeping away from your ex, you are giving him space, time and opportunity to reflect, to think things out for himself, and to refresh his memories of just why he fell for you to begin with.

Remember one thing, though: when he does start coming around again, don’t be too “hard-to-get”. Till you are sure of the situation, you have got to maintain a fine balance between being too cold and too eager.

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